Sunday, December 18, 2005

SuiTaBLe??? CoMpAtiBle???

Suitable... Compatible... Today a friend told me that he is actually looking for someone to be in his life and must be suitable for each other... And he is asking me whether "Do I agree with what he is thinking about??" Oh Well!!! All I told him was he can think whatever way he likes to cause this is his life and he should make decisions to suit himself better but I don't agree with him...
How can we define whether another person is suitable or even compatible staying with us??? Or even if luck is on our side so luckily for us to actually find someone that is suitable for us... How long would it last??? Forever??? Or even when that particular suitable and compatible person comes along into our life but we don't seem to love him or her, would we want to be with that person just because he or she suits us and we feel being together is just so right??? So dear friend if by any chance you are reading this part of my thought here I hope that you are not offended or seems to take this into your heart cause we both have our different kind of thinking.
Maybe I sound not normal to some people or friend... you would be thinking that I've never grown up still having this kind of my own way of thoughts... If I'm so fortunate to have found someone who I love deeply... and in return he does loves me as well... I believe that we would forever be suitable and stay compatible with each other cause love will overcome every obstacles in our love path of life... Back to your question... If someone suitable comes along into my life but I don't feel love towards him, will this kind of relationship work through out all my life??? Yeah maybe love can be develope but then which type is true love... Loving each other and staying together through life or building up love that can see through times...So I will wish you luck to find your suitable one and maybe there's a day that I would change my thoughts and agree with you but until this moment I still haven't see myself being able to be with someone that is suitable and compatible but no love to begin with... :)

11 comments:

Anonymous said...

it all still boils down to:

must you be compatible in order to love;
or must you love to be compatible?

you will find that someone. no worries. this world has 6 billion beings. or 3 billion if you take away half. have your pick. =)

Anonymous said...

Interesting topic.Everyone is unique.The subject of suitability and compatibility in my case lies in the principle of happiness, principle of both urging in responsibility and sharing towards one another.genuine attraction till death do us apart.Gob Bless You All Lovers.

EKENYERENGOZI Michael Chima said...

Even love has to make a choice.

Anonymous said...

yeah true. Even lobe has to make a choice

Anonymous said...

When we need to make a choice is it going to be LOVE after all ??? Or we just like to make a choice when we can't find LOVE or is it going the other way round ??? When we have make the choice we might go wondering do we make the right pick ??? SO WHY DO WE BOTHER ???

Anonymous said...

True love is not blind.
What you cannot see with your eyes,
you can see with your mind.

Follow your heart to the heart of your heartbeat.
Your heartthrob.
Where your heart finds peace, is your love.

God bless.

Joedie said...

true love is not blind....
love is blind....
lol :)
great to hear from you again and I see that this is not the first time you leave post to my blog...

Joedie said...

Follow your heart to the heart of your heartbeat.
Your heartthrob.
Where your heart finds peace, is your love.
Wishing and still wishing everyday to find love... well can't be said to find love more precisely like to find what is love after all???

Anonymous said...

Is love really that important??? Why do we have to bother or seems as though without love we would keep on looking and waiting for it to comes and appear into our life??? Well there's once I try all my best to forget about love but the more I want to forget about it the more it seems to dig into my thoughts and never seems to be forgotten at all... so here I am wishing everyone out there who believes in love would one day finally find the true love of their life

Anonymous said...

Well although I might sound foolish here but all I want everything... SuiTable, CoMpaTiblE and LoVe... lol = )

Anonymous said...

Love... love... love... there are still lots of better things out there to replace the love we can't find or don't seems to get into our life...