What friends are for???

How often will we ask ourself what can we do for our friends??? Sometimes I realised is it that what I've been doing all the while for my friends its just not enough??? Or is it that most of the time most people will only think about what their friends can do for them???

I think I'm a lucky person here when it comes to friends... My anonymous friend once asked me why am I so inactive with sports... Ok Ok... I'm the kind of person who doesn't like to play sports at all except snooker... and all the while I thought that maybe it just in my blood that I don't like sports until he told me that there must be a reason to it and make me think hard about this matter... and so here am I now at this moment really have to thank him hard as he make me realised why I don't like sports but hahahahahaha yea more laugh I'm not going to share this little fear of mine here with the world... This is something what my good anonymous friend did for me --> thank you thank you and thank you again...

I think I can be consider smart overall until the other day when I'm having a conversation with Kenneth - that this world is not the type I always think it is - to be more precise its more like I think the world to be like what I think it is - Not what it really is \:) So here I am now - a little wiser in a way - I should see the world for what it is not see the world like what I think it should be from my own perspective of point.

Getting to know all my friends is something fortunate for me... without them I'll never be who am I at this moment...

LOVE BUT NOT FALLING IN LOVE???

To define what exactly is love is very different from each different individual - Everybody has their own perspect of point especially in such sensitive issues her :)

Loving each other but not falling in love towards the other person - Then if in this kind of situation, is it a genuine kind of love or is it that they are taking too many things into CONSIDERATION???? Why do they have to think so much??? Or take too many things to consider about??? Why do human beings will consider and what kind of decision will they make when they go ahead approaching their dreams THAT NEED TO THINK MORE THAN TWICE BEFORE GOING AHEAD and now... do they ever ask back to themselves - WHEN IS THE LAST TIME YOU EVER DO SOMETHING PURELY MERELY JUST OUT OF GUTS?

Isn't it if we think too much, hesitate too much, consider too much on every kind of aspects about things in our life then IN THE END - gosh!!! The chances pass us by??? The more time it takes for us to consider the more we'll hesitate and in the end of the process we might just not taking anything ahead - Anyway whatever it is LIFE GOES ON but on the other hand... (yea yea yea don't need to remind me all the time k... I know I only have 2 hands) We'll never know if there's any life tomorrow... SO... let's don't just sit there and think or hesitate... Do whatever that you want and just go ahead with what will make you happy and live with no regrets even when you are six feet underground... CHEERS EVERYONE...

Back to my post title - LOVE BUT NOT FALLING IN LOVE??? Why do I have such a title here???

Charlotte loves Shawn and it goes the same way around but both of them are not falling in love with each other because they know they'll never have a future together - the situation won't allow or things won't turn out like what they hope to be - at times I'm just wondering when you know you love him and like to spend time with him, will do anything to overcome his obstacles and will only look at his priority first compare to your own - JUST BECAUSE OF SOME OTHER OBSTACLES you are holding back the feelings of not falling in love with him...