SuiTaBLe??? CoMpAtiBle???

Suitable... Compatible... Today a friend told me that he is actually looking for someone to be in his life and must be suitable for each other... And he is asking me whether "Do I agree with what he is thinking about??" Oh Well!!! All I told him was he can think whatever way he likes to cause this is his life and he should make decisions to suit himself better but I don't agree with him...

How can we define whether another person is suitable or even compatible staying with us??? Or even if luck is on our side so luckily for us to actually find someone that is suitable for us... How long would it last??? Forever??? Or even when that particular suitable and compatible person comes along into our life but we don't seem to love him or her, would we want to be with that person just because he or she suits us and we feel being together is just so right??? So dear friend if by any chance you are reading this part of my thought here I hope that you are not offended or seems to take this into your heart cause we both have our different kind of thinking.

Maybe I sound not normal to some people or friend... you would be thinking that I've never grown up still having this kind of my own way of thoughts... If I'm so fortunate to have found someone who I love deeply... and in return he does loves me as well... I believe that we would forever be suitable and stay compatible with each other cause love will overcome every obstacles in our love path of life... Back to your question... If someone suitable comes along into my life but I don't feel love towards him, will this kind of relationship work through out all my life??? Yeah maybe love can be develope but then which type is true love... Loving each other and staying together through life or building up love that can see through times...So I will wish you luck to find your suitable one and maybe there's a day that I would change my thoughts and agree with you but until this moment I still haven't see myself being able to be with someone that is suitable and compatible but no love to begin with... :)

My New Hair Style

Tang Ying's Birthday...

Its Tang Ying's birthday cake... looks so delicious huh!!??

Me & Tang Ying after her birthday wish...

Starts from the left -> Koon ( Tang Ying's dad ) ... Michelle... Jasmine... Danny ( Michelle's hubby ) ... Dora ( Tang Ying's mom ) & Me... Tang Ying is the precious little one sitting in the middle...

Me after the Birthday dinner

UniqueCorn...

No!!! No!!! No!!! Its not unicorn... Its UNIQUECORN...

Past... Present... Future...

Where am I living now -> Past, present or the future??? Mostly of the things that is on my mind is about the past or future... Always like missing all the things that had happened in the past like : college days in KL... Every night spent in the company of good friends ( Missing them like hell )... Every good things thant had happened... Good and bad times we have been through together... Crying our hearts out together... Miss all those moments... Even now in the present I'm living... those precious time we get together to catch up with each other, most of the time we will talk about the past of the future... Future??? Oh well, its like planning what to do so that we can be together -> working togethere and spend all the spare time together like what we used to do in the past as we are all living in separate places due to the circumstances...

Today, I was sitting in the living room thinking what is in the present? Why don't I like to talk about the present life I'm living in? Is it because I'm not happy with 'NOW'??? Or is it 'NOW'... I'm living in it, so it seems not that important??? Past, present, future... which is important? All three seems important and yet not important... The important part is like what is contain in it and what is happening in it that make things seems important...

Everything seems like undecidable, without past where does present stands??? and how will future be like... Maybe this three role each has their own importance... If without the past experience would today... I still bother to treasure the friendship built among all friends??? Until I can't see myself without all best friends in my life in the future... Although I don't just meant friends here, there are also other important things that had happened until now I have become what I am today and is looking forward to see what I'll become later on in the later stage of my life...

Fate???

Been leading a normal, down to earth life for quite a certain of time and was thinking life is simple or complicated? There are times when I think my life is simple and everything is goin gon smoothly down the path... Oh Gosh!!! :-( Then... within a second, yet things happened and complicated everything in my life... Is it things complicated me or the other way round...??? I make situations happened that later on complicated my life? <>

Is FATE playing his role now in my life? Wondering-wondering... So is this what's the saying of ' FATED TO BE???' FATE is one sure thing I would like to understand now...

I think I'm in love but why am I not being happily in love??? So is it FATE again played his role??? Putting up all kinds of obstacles he can think of to test what love means to me afterall... Searching for love or love found me??? Chemical reactions till I see sparks... fireworks... in the pit of darkness... So is this love should be??? I'm feeling so confused and the situation seems too confusing to me... I totally believe in FATE but I was also wondering do I have enough FAITH in myself to play along this long journey of life with FATE???? Uncertaintity... Insecurance...

LoVe???

What is love??? Passionate feelings towards another person... Strong emotions betweeen 2 person... Liking each other... Whatever definitions I get from everywhere, I just feel that there isn't a proper one that can define precisely what is love... (I don't mean any offence here just part of sharing my thoughts,ok? So you can leave your comments anytime)

Love is part of our life, I don't mean that you have no life - > to those who is single out there (meaning you are still not having someone special together)... See, you still love your parents, your siblings, your relatives, your friends, your pets(if you have any), your career and lots of others... So love can be found everywhere in everything in your life... You just need to search within yourself... All those type of love mentioned above, which is the most important to you? Again you have to search for yourself (I'm not here to help you to find the answer as I'm also one of those who is still searching)

I've just realised all the while I have never taken time to analysed what is the most important thing in my life, oh well I mean here is --> which type of love is the most important to me? Parents, siblings and all those close relatives, why do I love them??? Is it because of the bond (blood) that ties us together... I have no choices in selecting family because I'm born to this family... I have no rights to choose who to be my parents, siblings but all others... husband, friends, pets, careers, etc... those that we can choose... WE WILL WONDER ' DID I HAVE THE RIGHT CHOICE???'

Well, I see that each time when the love issues comes to my mind and thoughts... there are just too many in my thoughts, so, I better stop now or else it would be a never ending story. Love seems so simple yet complicated at the same time...

Passers By,Acquaintance or Friends???

Passers By... Everyday there are different kind of people we might meet. Some we'll get acquainted with and then emerge to as friends or good friends or better still best friend or even lovers??? but there are also some who we can't get along with each other and just forget we had actually met before.
The process of getting to know each other -> where would this lead us to later on in the future... Best friends, do we still keep contacting each other like what we are doing now or just take each other for granted? Or on the other hand, (yeah rite there's only 2 hands we have) is it we'll get out of each others life and to the worst... even there's a chance we meet someday, we can't even recognise each other or don't want to admit we know each other?
Today I was thinking about a friend, wondering whether our friendship meant anything to this particular friend... we collided with each others path of life but would we be walking together or even running the opposites way or just ignore each other present... Or just pretend we have never met before??? IN THE FUTURE... So no matter what's the circumstances awaiting for us in the future I've decided that from today onwards I need to appreciate every seconds spend with all my friends...
Oh!!! What makes me thought about all these??? Well, because the other day, I met a friend and I went up to this particular close friend of mine (which I believe we have share quality moments together) and said 'HI'... errr... well, too bad this anonymous friend answered/asked me -> 'Who are you?' and anonymous friend is definitely not joking and I'm just standing there wondering what happened between us or is it something that I have done to anonymous friend??? Do I deserve such kind of treatments I'm asking myself... definitely NOOOOOOOO!!! So why do I care... anonymous friend decided to forget we are friends so just let it be the way anonymous friend want it to be...

Moments To Be Remember

PAULINE, ME & JASMINE

A night in Melaka...

SATAY CELUP

What's 'satay celup'? Its all kind of varieties food (mostly uncook) to be dip and cooked in satay sauce... If the next time you are in Melaka don't miss this local restaurant there --> Capitol Satay...

Monkeying around...4

Monkeying around...3

The toughest pose among all... spend almost half an hour to climb up this coconut tree (and even injured my toes during the process climbing up) to capture this photo, but ending out looks more like a KOALA BEAR than monkeying around :)

Monkeying around...2

Monkeying around...

On the second day of 'HARI RAYA'

Went to Port Dickson at the Regency Resort...
Saw a nice coconut tree and can't resist to pose a photo of myself sitting on it... :)